Dating a man with children advice
It takes a mature woman to understand the complexities of dating a man who has children because you may not always be able to do the things two mature adults would want to do together.
If you come to care for the kids, however, the entire process can be rewarding and the relationship can go far.
Ideally, you want respect and approval of the children that is separate from their relationship with their mother.
They should never see you as their mother’s rival or replacement.
He is the primary caregiver so that his decisions are more important than your own.
Kids need to know that you are a stable force in their father’s life and that you are not going to fall for the typical manipulations that children often do in order to test the strength of your relationship.
As a couple, you need to present a united front so that the children can relate to you on a level that they can expect to be permanent.
Make sure that when dating a man with kids, you initially meet in locations that do not involve the children.
Try not to meet the children until you are sure the relationship is going to last.