Dating without the intent to marry
We then broadened the study by surveying and then running focus groups of single men who at that time had no intention of getting married.
At first, we had young single men do the interviews, but so many of the interviewees gave macho answers that we doubted their reliability.
The responses they elicited were generally straightforward.
The single men apparently did not feel an obligation to give these interviewers macho or politically correct answers. The first was that there is an age when a man is ready to marry-the Age of Commitment.
The age varies from man to man, but there are patterns that are easily identified: Still, there is no one-to-one correlation.
In fact, we threw out the entire study and started again.
The second time we tried teams composed of men and women, but that produced mainly politically correct answers, which we also questioned.